Looking in the right place with The Ten Stages

Looking in the right place with The Ten Stages – not in the brain chemicals, but in the memories – somewhere in there is a ‘false belief’, a toxic factoid, along the lines that “I need Dad/Mum to survive”. We look for infantilism – the transfer into adult life of infant survival strategies. It’s a ‘bottled up’ disorder – needs unbottling. We start slowly and gently to unbox our child hidden within life.